India is a Safe Country For Girls
Yes!
I, a teen girl
living in India studying in Delhi. Say this statement boldly and publicly.
Before you start
calling an ambulance for me or googling all the evidence of increase in rape
rates and female murders. Let me ask you something: Is the whole of India Unsafe?
I live in Noida as a single,independent and alone , I I think 10 times
before leaving my room and going outside be it just to get a glass of juice, I am
still eve teased even if I wear salwar kameez. But then what changed my perspective?
Answer: Travelling
Like you
guys know recently I went on a vacation I was travelling by train. It took me
to quite a few states of the country. So I did a social experiment I got down
on each of the train stations to notice the reaction towards me!
Social Experiment
Delhi: Extremely
Busy Crowd, but that doesn’t stop them from giving me a look over a complete
from top to bottom judging me like a piece of vegetable.
Uttar Pradesh: A lot of on purpose touching
and pushing, eyes followed me around the platform. Attempts to grope forced me
to retreat.
Bihar:
A Helpful crowd but Lot of catcalls and taunts.
Some extremely funny. (a post on that coming soon)
West Bengal: A
few stares here and there. But generally a safer feeling. A little un-cooperative
though.
Bihar: A Helpful crowd but Lot of catcalls and taunts.
Some extremely funny. (a post on that coming soon)
Sikkim: No letching no stares, no groping and no
touching. A sense of chivalrousness in
men.
Punjab:.
They like feasting their eyes but would jump to help you with that extra
luggage or getting you a cup of tea on the station.
Maharashtra : An
energetic crowd with everywhere minding their own business a sense of equality.
P.s:
Incase you are wondering where I was travelling this is a collection of all my experiences
from recent past.
Also,
You
might have had a different experience. But this is how I was treated at these
platforms.
So
yes, Even though I have just taken a few states into consideration I feel that
the current situation can be improved and I too like every Indian girl dream of
a country where I can dress freely and
roam around the night without a guard.
Think
about it!
#Thehotmessexpress!
Signing off!
I love your social experiment. It's such a new perspective. Checking people's reaction on railway platforms.
ReplyDeleteWell north-east does top in being safer than its western counterparts.
And I agree there is a lot to be improved upon. But someday we shall see the light of the day when girls aren't an object to please the eyes.
:)